Marriage Abroad FAQs

We are unable to provide you with such a letter or certificate. The U.S. Embassy and U.S. Consulates are part of the Federal government and do not have access to U.S. marriage records which are handled on a local/county/state level in the United States. However, as of January 2021, U.S. citizens residing in Germany may take an oath swearing to their eligibility to marry directly at the Standesamt. For more information, go to “What documents do I need to get married in Germany?” below.

If you are getting married outside Germany, we recommend consulting the website of the U.S. Embassy in the country where you intend to marry to learn more on the marriage process and required documents.

Usually yes. You can get married as soon as you have registered with the Einwohnermeldeamt.

If you only have 90 days to get married, it might be tight to gather all the documents required by the Standesamt.  We advise you to have your fiancé(e) residing in Germany start the registration process before coming to the country. See below “What documents do I need to get married in Germany?” for more information.

Yes, you have to be at least 18 years old.

Only marriages performed at the local Office of Vital Statistics (Standesamt) are legally valid in Germany. A church ceremony may be held later, if desired. Consular officers cannot perform marriages.

No. To know if your marriage will be recognized in the United States and what documentation may be needed, contact the office of the Attorney General of your state of residence in the United States.

However, we advise to get an international marriage certificate from the Standesamt and get an apostille attached by German authorities where the marriage took place so that the document will be valid for use in the U.S., if needed in the future.

No. If a U.S. citizen marries a German citizen, he or she does not acquire German citizenship, nor does the German citizen acquire U.S. citizenship. If you wish to live in the United States after marrying, the U.S. spouse will need to apply for an Immigrant Visa on behalf of the foreign spouse.

This depends on what the registrar’s office (Standesamt) requires and may vary from case to case. The first step is to make an appointment with the Standesamt to give notice of the impending marriage (Antrag auf Eheschlieβung formerly known as Aufgebot, § 4 PStG). Your fiancé(e) does not have to accompany you (*) if he or she has given a power of attorney to you for the registering process. (*) Advisable though if the U.S. citizen does not speak German.

At that time, you will receive a detailed list of all documents required in your specific case.

The following standard requirements usually apply in almost all cases:

  • Your birth certificate. It is a German requirement that all documents must have been issued within the last six months; therefore you may have to obtain a new copy of your birth certificate. The embassy or consulates cannot obtain documents on your behalf nor provide translations of documents. More information about obtaining vital records in the United States can be found at: How to obtain vital records. Birth certificates for any children you may have had with your fiancé(e) prior to the marriage will also have to be presented

  • If your fiancé(e) cannot be present when you register for the upcoming marriage, then you need to present a written statement indicating that he/she agrees to the initiation of the registry process (Beitrittserklarung). It is done very easily by simply having your fiancé(e) sign the power of attorney form on the marriage questionnaire provided by the Standesamt.

  • All foreigners marrying in Germany require an official Affidavit of Eligibility to Marry or Certificate of No Impediment to Marriage (Ehefähigkeitszeugnis) or Certificate of Single Status (Ledigkeitsbescheinigung) to obtain a marriage license at a Civil Registry Office (Standesamt). No such government-issued document exists in the United States. The U.S. embassy or consulates cannot attest to your marital status.

As of January 2021, U.S. residents in all 16 German states may now take an oath swearing to their eligibility to marry  (eigene eidesstattliche Erklärung über den Familienstand) directly at their Standesamt. 

If you do not have legal resident status in Germany, you must obtain a notarized marriage affidavit from your home state in the United States. Neither the U.S. Embassy nor the U.S. Consulates General can request/obtain the marriage affidavit on your behalf.

  • Other additional documents as specified on the list provided by the Standesamt, e.g. if you are divorced, widowed, under 18.

Note: German authorities might also require that you provide an apostille for some of your documents (birth certificates, court orders, etc.) issued abroad. See next question.

Once you have submitted all necessary documents to the Standesamt,  the paperwork is then sent off to the Higher Regional Court  (Oberlandesgericht), in order to obtain an exemption from having to produce a certificate of eligibility to marry (Befreiung vom Ehefähigkeitszeugnis).

No. U.S. apostilles are issued by the Secretary of State in the state that issued the original document

To avoid issues with the German authorities and airline bookings, we recommend you change your passport as soon as possible.

If your passport was issued less than a year ago, you can exchange your passport free of charge. Follow these instructions.

If your passport was issued more than a year ago, then you need to apply for a passport renewal and pay the appropriate fee.

You will need to document your name change with an original or certified copy of your marriage certificate and also submit a copy of the document thereof. Your original name change document will be returned to you with your new passport.

Yes, same-sex marriage has been legal in Germany since October 1, 2017.

Note: Same-sex marriages, officially recognized in other countries, are also recognized as legal marriages in Germany.